Perhaps theres a clue there? We are each individuals and our behaviour as children can be "scripted"? I hope you find whatever it is you are looking for, and I hope your daughter also recieves the help she needs, but alas some people are so badly disturbed that the help is never accepted, as trust has been badly eroded over the yrs, Fortunately for me, I recieved the help and insight and compassion that was needed.