Yep. I think we do tend to be drawn to people who provide what we think we need, and who we think we can satisfy. My husband has a strange family, and I think he just figure he could handle me. I found he was a man who was smart, funny, and cracked enough to get on my frequency. I have very quiet men in my family, so I knew i could handle the scandinavian introvert deal. A lot of my friends are either bipolar or childhood abuse victims. Hmmmm. Or both. Hmmmmm. 'Tis a strange ole world.