I agree Suki. There isn't any shame in being a virgin. I wish I still was. I've been with two guys and was in my mid twenties the first time. The last guy I was with was almost eight years ago so it's been quite a long time. I haven't even had a date since then. Yeah that really helps my self esteem that nobody will ask me out and when I ask they're not interested but that's getting off topic. For those of you who are still virgins stay that way until marriage. It is really awkward for me when I happen to see the two guys I was with and I'm bound to them spirtiually for life. There is a reason God said to wait until marriage. He knows how powerful it is because He created it to be that way and He is trying to protect us not ruin our fun.