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Default Oct 23, 2012 at 09:27 PM
 
Thank you so much for invaluable input! With regard to the marriage, he is legally married and they see each other several times a year. She did pick him up from the airport. He plans on taking me to her place for the New Year bash. She knows me. She even has some of the stuff which was left over when I was selling my late mom's apartment over there - she has a big property in the country and she was able to take some boxes with books written by my grandparents. I do not regard what he has with me as an affair because I predate his "wife" (I place "wife" in quotation marks because to me someone you see several times a year is not a spouse legal status notwithstanding) by many years and am the main love of his life, the fact that has been confirmed by him many many times. I do not know how to name what we have, I do know it is weird, but it is definitely not an affair.

He smokes a pack a day - much more than you do.
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