I think you and FarmerGirl agree. She talks about the bell curve of life, in other words, about the normal distribution. It is always easier to find partners if you happen to be in the thick of the bell curve. But, luckily, there is someone for the long tail as well, just not as many people. Cross-dressers are in the long tail, and SOME women - a few - would get attracted, but the majority would not. Hopefully, with the advent of the Internet that makes matching people according to their fetishes, special interests etc. easier than ever, it is becoming simpler and more straightforward for cross-dressing men to find women partners.