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Confused Dec 21, 2012 at 06:16 PM
 
Just a question to my fellow PC members. How important is sex to you? Is it wrong if you are not having it?

Also, if you are in a relationship and you have a good time together does it require you to have sex?

I have issues with intimacy, I have been in relationships where I felt used for sex so it was never enjoyable. But now, being in my 30s, I cannot "make love". I feel sex is more enjoyable NOW when it is cheap and meaningless, therefore I can't be with my boyfriend because I truly love him. So, the two years we have been together, I have not have sex, I just take care of myself other ways on my own.

WHAT???!! I don't know what the heck happened there. It is a total contradiction I know.

I will plan on talking to my T about it on Monday.

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