I feel the same way about sex that I do about booze. I just don't get what the big deal is. Both sex and booze are fine, but if I can't have them, I don't think twice about it. I compare sex to other pleasant physical sensations like taking a hot shower and washing your hair. Nice, but nothing to rave about. I recognize that I have a naturally low sex drive, but sometimes it makes me feel so different from the rest of the world. Fortunately, hubby seems to have a pretty low drive as well.
EJ