FF both of my H's brothers are like your brother. One has 5 children that he claims and supports from 3 relationships two which were marriages. His other brother slept w/ all his other brothers ex's. He married 2 different wemen and has 2 children one from ea marriage. My family and my H's family togehter would make a great Jerry Springer Episode. Hopefully your brother is not that bad. My H tells me all the time "I have no thing positive in terms of family to bring to the table" I tell him he does. We have 2 teenage boys my H's brothers are a prime example of what drugs, alcohol, and sex can do for ya. So your so much better off my friend. Take your time.