You know that is ok. Women are drawn to all types of men. I would love to find a more passive man, though I am not so good at being dominate. There are several guys who I have been friends w/ that I would have loved to be more than friends w/ just because of the sensitivity fact. I have a fear of agressive men, I am sure I am not the only woman on the planet w/ that issue. There are women who are quite comfortable in a head of the household roll, my sister in law for example.