what is your age if you don't mind me asking. Have you started any new meds. Antidepressants, blood pressure, anything else.

it is tough to recover from that. I have preformance anxiety to and I'm female. If the big "O" doesn't happen then it makes my H feel bad. Like he didn't do his job. So it puts alot of pressure on me. I do understand fully. Mine is mostly due to meds though.