Who is 'society' anyway?

And, this seems to be about setting personal boundaries and getting needs met. Sometimes those needs make maintaining boundaries very hard, and add alcohol to the mix and those boundaries can nearly disappear, at least temporarily while the needs are being met.

I don't think 'society' knows (or shoud know) who's sleeping with whom and when. There are other measures of responsibility that are more evident and that are socially acceptable/not acceptable.

Someone who judges another person harshly because they have "gotten them' to sleep with them easily isn't, in my opinion, a candidate for judgeship.