Ok - let ME try again.....

What I am trying to convey is that...... many people are just going through life and/ or a relationship just being content with what they have or were they are in life and love (even though they are not happy - often lacking joy with the over all out come) - they remain being nothing more than just content within matters of the heart... thus they are missing out on being HAPPY - having JOY.

Does that make better since..... please know that the word content I am using here does not hold the same meaning as the word contentment - at least not in what I am trying to express it.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

Example: Like staying in a loveless marriage... you remian in it for you are content with the financial and emotional security the marriage gives unto you and the children - yet deep inside you desire more - to be HAPPY and to be filled with JOY when you are sharing your life and heart with another