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LMo said:
But whether it is sexual abuse or not... I think it depends upon the intention, not the act itself.
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YES...... I agree here, for it is in how a person goes about the discipline that can leave another to view it as it as sexual abuse or not.... for if it is done after a child has done something wrong and the person has taken time to calm down before administering the spanking then I feel the child will see it for what was....... BUT - if the spanking is done just because the adult person feels like doing it and they make the child pull down their pants / underclothing before they begin with the spanking then it might be able to be seen as a form of sexual abuse.
LoVe,
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