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Maven said:
Having sex sooner or later in a relationship doesn't define one's self-esteem.

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I agree with that statement, no matter if it is a male or a female........ yet I think what we have found (based on the original topic) is that many guys find this behavior of sleeping with them on the first date as a defining moment in the area of having RESPECT (or not) for a female.

Now having said that - I too will say that it is not right for a male to try so hard to get his date into bed and then judge her so harshly on it.... test or no test - it is WRONG!!

LoVe,
Rhapsody -


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That would be like me sending a drop dead gorgeous female to flirt with my husband / BF to find out if I can really trust him or not.......... and the test would be for her to get naked in front of him and try to seduce him into bed - if he goes (he has lost my respect and the relationship is over) if he does not go then I know I can trust him, and life goes on as normal............. or does it?