ivillage is excellent!!!!! I have found so many hints and tips as far as sex and dating and men and stuff go.....even though it is a chic site, I think it would be beneficial to men too. Just an example of what I found there, and I'm gonna try not to be graphic......I just typed in something like "tips for being better in bed" or something like that. So you can type in "tips for getting the heat back". I had forgotten ivillage. Thanks for mentioning that!