Inny! You maybe right...you have actually put into words what I was trying to..but making a big hash out of it!!....I was asking someone else this same question...I said is this part of my fanasy of wanting that perfect mother love? but now as I'm an adult, sexual feelings come into it as well...yes domination does seem a biggggggg part of it...I havent yet brooched this subject in therapy...I will now!