Hi ! Living with a man that has antisocial p.d. is no picnic! I love who he is at the core. It is the disorder that isn't so friendly. Lot's of lies about anything, and a seemingly selfish, self absorbed demeanor are only a mask for him. I know he really has a very low self esteem. I remain quiet and must absorb the less appealing parts of him. That is where I pray this site can help me!