Welcome to Psych Central aplee. It seems from what you say that you are feeling like your submissiveness in bed is not consistent with how you behave in life. That could be that this is triggering a reaction inside you. You say:
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I dont know whats happened and I really dont want to go there and open up something I cant handle I have enough going on as it is!
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I know that feeling of not wanting to open up the unknown. A friend went to a therapist because they were not feeling right in their relationship. As the therapist and my friend explored deeper, they uncovered things that helped explain the mystery but also opened up emotional pain that my friend was not aware of before.
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