Any advice on getting my 20 year old son who will graduate college in Dec. to seek help. He suffers from depression and turns to alcohol. Will not accept responsibility for himself. He excels in college but regular life he is just falling. He rarely bathes or changes his clothing.

He binge drinks on weekends. His girlfriend of 2 1/2 years is ready to leave due to his drinking. He manipulates her as well as me.

He rarely comes out of his room at home.

He has seen 3 different therapists but refuses to go after 2 visits.
He is on lexapro but that is not helping He has gained almost 50 lbs and looks so bad.