Not certain how to answer question two, as far as what it is. If altering your appearance physically, such as shaving off part of your hair leaves you uncomfortable, which is understandable, then it's for him to respect not for you to feel obliged to make such a concession. Yes, hair grows back, however, it's not immediately. That's unfair to you, no wonder you've felt depressed.

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