snaptrizzy Hello and welcome to PC.

I would go to couple's counseling as she may have some issues that are keeping her from being more intimate with you. Also a check up with her doc wouldn't be a bad idea. Is she taking any medications that may be decreasing her sex drive? I don't think pressuring her is the way to go. For me as a female, it is important to have a strong emotional bond with my partner. I am wondering if she feels that you are only interested in a physical bond and not so much on an emotional level as woman can appreciate that. I hope that you get this straightened out and please be patient with her. If you really love her, then you can try to see what she is really feeling.

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