I can and intend to keep main custody part of me feels guilty for wanting to keep my grandson close i feel like i am denying my own son his right to father, but i don't know if he would want this so much if his wife wasnt in the picture. so many kids have dads who don't want them so i feel as if i am denying him that. Part of me worries if i don't give him custody and the bio-mom gets her self together will they give it to her if she takes me to court i donno i just worry if i am doing the right thing. I have been sharing visits with him they started with an over night then, visits on the weekend this last time it was a Thurs night to sun morning. they wanted to do it again that next Thursday and my grandson got very upset crying and said i just wanna go home with you nana. I wanna sleep in our house nana and he said "i already been to dads i wanna go home" so we did my son was hurt but i told him i think every weekend is too much for him.