Hi All, I just went thru a living hell after my wife decided she wanted ' to go in a different direction ". I guess the old " to death do us part ' should just be thrown out the window.
It's obviously a long story and I will share parts as I go along. I'm not much of a typer so I try to keep things short. But let me say this. I was married a very long time and because of my personal mental and physical situation I didn't even see it coming. For ME all the clichés are correct. Blinded by love , etc... It is like a death in the family and that's how I have to look at it to go on. The mental anguish I went through , especially having BPD , is and was horrific. To be continued...
All you people out there get all the help you can. If you have any feelings left for him/her its going to be hard. If your the kind of person who doesn't have any feelings left and have a ' replacement " or look with confidence about moving on it probably will be somewhat easier.