So I am queer.. and public toilets are horrible.. At least in my country.
There is a female and a male one not neutrals.. and that is horrible. I haven't gone to a toilet at school or outside since I identify as queer or non-binary in general and it's horrible.
People will say "so what, just use the female one because you pass as a female" but it is a big deal. I feel so out of place there, and I would use the male one but I got beaten up there a few times and I am too scared to go as well. It's horrible! Especially at school. I have to sneak out of the middle of class, and lock myself in the male's bathroom and be as quiet as possible because I needed a rest from my binder and every time I hear a male voice somewhere near the toilets I literally start shaking.
Please if someone has tips or something that can help me with the stress I have for the male toilets because at least there I feel a bit like myself..
Pfh I don't know at least tell me that I am not alone at least..