Is he cheap for a reason? Life experiences, a common goal mortgage payoff etc anything? Is he looking to be controlling? Well, if you love him, you picked him so better do what he says. Keep secrets and spend at certain time money and prove your cut backs if you got caught ever at all lol. That seemed like a viable reason weight lost. Most times I controlled all the money and bank accounts so I don't really have experiences with a man controlling money, in most cases. I have never or know anyone that spent impulsely as the norm. Well you are going to argue for something sounds like it really healthy.