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Originally Posted by leomama
It's not for us to judge why others have the values they do. Values are what make us who we are. We have to determine what they are and how to live by them. Nobody can dictate that for us and nobody is hurt by us living by our values. It's really that simple. Values sort out what belongs to whom and where it goes.
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It is an observable behavior and there for identifiable and quantifiable. Judgement and discernment are not the same things as being judgmental (which in the end is a cognitive issue). And is in this case not what it seems at all. Not a boundary set, but masked PD behavior.