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Originally Posted by snarkydaddy
I understand your point and do not disagree... However, What We are talking about here is the miss use of the word boundary.
And using that word to cover up a behavior that had nothing to do with a healthy values set.
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We can not assign motive to others, all we can do is say how others affect us, otherwise we are judging them and if we think they are behaving badly, now we are too. Rather then asking why are they doing that we should be asking why am I feeling this? Others are not responsible for our feelings, nor are they the cause .