I think maybe I'd try diverting the money I would spend on the webcam sex addiction toward therapy and getting well? We do choose what to spend our money on; it's easy to say, "I can't help it, I walk past the liquor store and have to go in. . ." but the answer there can be, "don't walk past the liquor store". You can have a real relationship with your self and wife or the webcam ones. But you choose which to work at strengthening? You spent a long time strengthening the webcam one so now it will be harder to do the real but still possible if that's what you want.