I get intimidated by 'normal' types, and don't know what to say to them. I am attracted to and attract kooky, quirky types. They are interesting and fun, and I feel an instant kinship and feel comfortable. I always have good friendships with these kinds of people, no problems really.

My h is a very 'normal' type, as it turns out. Hmmmm....

I really haven't had any real problems in any of my relationships. (Except for husband, mother, and somewhat one ex who has his issues)

I have one life-long gf, who I have had to defriend several times, but then refriended. It is definitely HER. Now, I keep her at a safe distance and don't give her ammunition to use against me, and we're doing fine.

Some friends just moved on and we lost touch.

Even out of the ex bf's, I now understand why I pushed them away (BPD traits), but it never ended with them thinking badly of me. Most are still my fb friends!