I'm trying to figure out how to ask this question without it becoming about sex and ex expectations so here it goes.

My wife and I have a pretty good sex life but I've noticed lately that she teases me without having sex. Today she was changing after taking a shower and when I walked in she turned around and started rubbing her body on me. When I recommended that we close the door and have a quickie. She just laughter and shrugged it off.

What bothers me about this is that I tend to get upset and take this as a sign of her not loving me. A part of me know that's it's not true but I take it very personal. Any advice on how to accept that just because her teasing me gets me in the mood doesn't mean she's in the mood for sex?