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Sassandclass
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Member Since: Apr 2017
Location: New Brunswick
Posts: 673
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Default Jul 10, 2017 at 07:46 PM
 
That's very understandable, and it just proves you are human[emoji169].

I'm not great with rejection either. It's a tough pill to swallow [emoji17]and afterwards, i always want to hole up inside my house and protect myself from the world. It's like I want to stop loving anyone and everyone because of the hurt.

Have you tried looking into things like "fear of abandonment"? Often this is at the root of attachment issues/ self esteem issues in relationships. I've researched those areas extensively because I kept pushing people away with being too attached to them, and it gave me a lot of relief to know that it is a learned behaviour and therefore can be unlearned. It has nothing to do with your worth as a human being. It really has nothing to do with who you really ARE. It's just a coping mechanism that was learned and now is in need of being unlearned.
If any of this is striking a cord with you, I would suggest looking up "ways to overcome fear of abandonment" or "ways to overcome attachment issues". eaceandlove:
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