I completely relate to you. I was also super worried about being a virgin in my twenties, and had a lot of self confidence and self worth issues stemming from it. I was always worried about how other people would judge me, being this old and still never having sex when it seems like everyone else around me already has. I'm 27 now, and still a virgin. I don't judge myself about it anymore, though. The only person who needs to know is the partner who is lucky to be with you.