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pcrdude
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Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: Saint Louis
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Default Oct 11, 2017 at 09:49 AM
 
Thanks for the reply bodhisagan. I fully understand what you wrote, and have grappled with the thoughts of being codependent or an enabler. I am fully committed to her, and as long as she is making progress (she is med compliant), I think it may be possible. When asymptomatic, she is the most wonderful, empathetic, caring woman I have ever known. I know it's going to be rough, and I will have to work very hard, but she is worth it (as long as she doesn't cross the boundaries). Those are actively working with her pDoc, and not running away every seven or so months. I intend to encourage her to seek DBT as a way of coping better. She already told me is sick of me referring to the disorder, so that is something I need to do better. You alluded to that in your message. I had a previous girlfriend with borderline, and I gave up on her. This condition is treatable.

Again, thanks for your well written reply!
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