Yeah I dont think she will stop until she goes and tries it. Then she will probably realize its not what she thought it was over time. I'm going through a similar situation right now but my kids are 2 and 5. My wife is now in love with a woman apparently, but there is so much more to the story. She is leaving and moving in with the other woman and I've files for divorce. Sadly part of me still wants to work it out, but I know she wont see it for what it is until the excitement of the newness wears off and then she will have nothing...It is just pure selfishness. Some people cant be happy with what they have and they need to always try to find something "better", but really is just that they are not happy with themselves and they will never find anything better.