To be clearer than I was in my first post: I identify as bisexual/queer and not gay. I am attracted to men, but the problem is I’m also attracted to women and have never acted on that. Ideally, as much as I like the idea of traditional monogamy, it does cause dissonance between my sexuality and actual sexual experience.

What I’m most afraid of coming out is biphobia. I’ve been able to avoid it pretty well so far, but if I were out, that would be opening myself up to that. I’m not sure how much I would be accepted in LGBT groups outside of specifically bisexual groups because biphobia comes from both sides.