Nothing is wrong with you. We are all made differently. Can I ask if you have tried different positions with men? Your position can make a huge difference. You could also have sex with the vibrating butt plug or vibrator in. **** sex is also awesome if you have a partner who is on board with that. As for orgasms, every woman is different and not every guy will be able to get you there. Consider for a moment that its not you, you just haven't met your match yet.