Thanks, Purple!
Maybe we don't talk about it because women feel ashamed of it? I know I feel ashamed and awful for having this problem. We should be more open about it. And some men don't know how to be good lovers either!!
I'll tell him just that! That's it's a compliment to him, in all reality. Never thought of it that way, but you're right. I DO care about him and like him very much.