Men are sometimes a bit ignorant about women’s ability to cum easily. Only small percentage of women climax during just intercourse. It doesn’t mean that there are no other methods. I don’t climax during intercourse but my husband is excellent at oral and hand job (but at oral he is the best), it never ever fails. So he does that first so I climax and he immediately proceed to intercourse. He feels satisfied seeing me climaxing and is ok with me not getting there during jntercourse. Maybe your guy can satisfy you before intercourse.