Damn psych drugs. I hate that they can have this side effect. I am sorry you experience the same. I've been on meds for so long I don't remember if they make it worse for me or not. I've asked my P doc to give me meds without sexual side effects though. As far as I recall, I've always had trouble. Maybe I am pent up.... maybe it's an emotional problem. I really don't know. I, too, need to feel trust with a partner, emotionally. It's early on still in my relationship (six weeks). So hopefully this will improve in time. Otherwise, I may need to bring toys into the mix, lol.