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Sassandclass
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Member Since: Apr 2017
Location: New Brunswick
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Default Jan 01, 2018 at 07:57 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Artchic528 View Post
No, it isnt. We have to figure this out now so that when we meet up irl we will be all set.


Okay, I’m just making sure I have this all correct. You haven’t met IRL yet? He want you to dominate but you are not into extreme domination, correct?

So here’s the thing. Sex feels VERY VERY different in real life than you can fantasize about. Something you think you might like, you might not. Or something you think you won’t like, you might.

With that in mind, what I would do is take things slow, and as they progress add in what you’re comfortable with. Just slowly at first. Then maybe add the handcuffs. Then go from there. He might feel that’s enough for him right now. Or you might be surprised and you might want to be more dominate when you’re put in the real position of doing so. The point is, you won’t know until you’re actually living it. So relax, sit back, and enjoy the ride. Take things as they come.
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