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Old 01-01-2018, 06:57 PM
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Default Re: How to mesh different sexual preferences in a relationship?

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Originally Posted by Artchic528 View Post
No, it isnt. We have to figure this out now so that when we meet up irl we will be all set.


Okay, Iím just making sure I have this all correct. You havenít met IRL yet? He want you to dominate but you are not into extreme domination, correct?

So hereís the thing. Sex feels VERY VERY different in real life than you can fantasize about. Something you think you might like, you might not. Or something you think you wonít like, you might.

With that in mind, what I would do is take things slow, and as they progress add in what youíre comfortable with. Just slowly at first. Then maybe add the handcuffs. Then go from there. He might feel thatís enough for him right now. Or you might be surprised and you might want to be more dominate when youíre put in the real position of doing so. The point is, you wonít know until youíre actually living it. So relax, sit back, and enjoy the ride. Take things as they come.
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