I do. Always. It's a common routine for me afterwards to squeeze the tip of the condom to see if it is intact. My woman expects me to do that since she has a vital interest in there, too ....

And when I peel off the condom and the tip of my penis is bone dry ... let's say, if she is paying attention she would most likely notice.

But anyway, if I never or only rarely come, then I (or we) have a problem that needs to be discussed or handled. If it only happens once in a while, the'll have to accept it. Just like people aren't just always in the mood.