Hmm. My trunk is loaded with fetishes but I don’t speak of one or the other 24/7 but still... I don’t think that I can comment without knowing the fetish that this young man has?
Is there a reason that you can’t disclose the fetish? Is it worse than, fer instance,
I really enjoy cauliflower and Cheez-Whiz but I don’t speak of it 24/7. I also enjoy some sexual practices that others might feel immoral (or gross...). If you could just name the fetish, it would help.