I just read the "replies" to the gentle reminder... sensing that I was somehow off.
It's funny in a way. I joined the forum because of the Personality Place forums! And based on my reading of said "articles", I thought people with NPD would actually never be here, since they never feel they have a problem... or so the online articles say.
Sorry if I misjudged that. The person I was with did fit that description.
If I need support for my experience I'll bump it over to Survivors or Caretakers. I get it now.