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Default Feb 25, 2018 at 09:37 AM
 
Hi,
a few days ago I went wit my very good friends son (6 years old) to the shop, and after that we wanted to place all the groceries in a car. I was very tired and nervous from my job and he was way full of energy. He wanted fast to help me and he started to place the groceries into a car without putting them into a bag first. I was on the telephone talking and he was way too faster than me.
In that point I snapped and I took his hand making him stop doing it, and I told him with an angry tone that we need to put them into a bag first.
He looked at me and said that he didn't knew that and that I could've said it first.

I don't have kids and these moments are rare for me. I also have fear of these situations where, if I have kids, I could snap or cause of various factors could not be above my drives, and kids with their speed and energy could make me react in a way I would regret just a few seconds later.

How do you manage those situations?
Thanks
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