I'm at a point where I can't stop looking and masturbating to porn. And I wonder if there is an unconscious unmet need in me that I automatically try to fill by doing these things. It's not all just chemistry, it can't be. Or just sexual. Alcohol addicts have similar reasons why they act out. So there is the need, the trigger that leads to fantasizing about a fulfillment to that need. My question is what really is that unconscious need and how can it be filled in a different way?