There is a "GREAT" time that happened to me.I used to get really involved emotionally for her. mentally it was killing me, nami, psychiatrists always reading,researching stuff it was endless, And one day the light went on...I didn't do it....I can't control it she don't care and to bring it up ends up in brutal unnessisary anger. so I do what I can but I treat her totally different. sort of like I don.t care. ....Take care of yourself first cause if you don't know one else will...