Hi,

Just wanted to introduce myself to this area of the forum.

Anyone else gay and in a long-term heterosexual relationship?

I started questioning about three years ago. My relationship wasn't in a good place and still isn't. I couldn't leave due to being a stay-at-home-mum and having no way to support myself. I worked hard to get a job, spent a lot of time training, but now it's all going wrong. I might be jobless and dependent on my partner within weeks.

I started seeing a therapist at the beginning of the year with the intension of taking steps toward separating from my partner, but I've just ended that. My therapist seemed to think everything going wrong came back to my home life and kept suggesting that I left my partner with or without a job. We were going around in circles. I felt that she was frustrated with me, so I called an end to it.

I'm feeling lost and stuck at the moment.

Anyone relate? In a similar situation?