I completely disagree! As long as you don't stand your ground the bullies have won. You are giving this message to the child being bullied too. You are telling them to give up. The bullies continue to bully unchecked. These are the monsters that grow up to be bullies and have disrespect for those around them - including their spouses. instead, the message must be given that such behaviour is unacceptable and that they will be held accountable for it - their parents too.