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Originally Posted by smlawnz
All I see on Quora is how pitiful of an excuse for a human being Narcissists are. I asked if there were any conversations that didn't make us out to be baby eating ax murderers. Boy what a mistake!!
I am just so hurt by coming to the realization of who and what I am. I didn't choose not to have been given the opportunities in childhood that others got. I don't want to hurt the people around me. I don't know how to be anything other that what I am. I don't know how to fix myself. Even when you read articles by therapists they disagree on if you can even treat a narcissist.
I'm just looking for help. I am ready to admit my flaws. I want to change. I can not keep living my life this way. I don't mean anybody any harm, I don't think I am even aware of the things that I do or what the true meaning of those things are to others.
I just want to get better.
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I wouldn't get all worked up about what other people say or write about. We are hardwired differently. It's natural for neurotypicals to fear the unknown, especially when it commonly takes on a dark flavor. We are capable of things they are not. Sometimes they see it as an unfair advantage over them. The drive to be better is what should be focused on here, for with it and enough dedication, we can get very close to perfection.